Dramas in life
By: Dr.R.E. Regino
Early morning Father revealed about the details of control-drama or the Manuscript of man lifestyle. This started through the house activities when children wake up late because we have watched TV movie the whole night.
We parent do love our children and we want to express this love by giving and providing their needs such as shelter, clothing, food, security and education as tangible proof. As a father, I also learned these things from my parent of which also I handed down to my family. This is legitimate because this part of our family lifestyle, culture, practices that become tradition. Tradition is a long-established custom or belief, often one that has been handed down from generation to generation. But there many contributories to these collections we stored within from our childhood through manhood. And when it is our turn for execution, it is base in the premise of our learning that become part of our being. Many times a parent said to his child who has done something wrong, “WHY DID YOU DO THAT”? The reply of the child is simply, “I JUST DON’T KNOW”? The attitude a child displayed makes our heart grow ponder because in reality we also do not know WHY?
We base our judgment on what we think what is right and wrong. So when violations reach it prescribe limitation, three times the most, we punish them. We call this disciplinary action for the child to learn his mistake. Because man doesn’t know his true identity, we become one of the best actors of this control-drama called life. And how awful is the consequence of such action that was based on man’s script that you accepted as your own. We tend to make believe what tomorrow could bring when today, we don’t really know.
We tend to manipulate or force others to give us attention and we gain energy. So one of the first things we will look at is "control dramas." Everyone not awakened and some that are awakening still live in a control drama. Control dramas come from seeking a source outside ourselves to make us feel better. Some are passive and some aggressive but we must take a good look at our lives. "Judgment (making right of all wrong) must begin in us." You can usually start by looking at your parents. One drama will produce another so we must learn not to play into another. You might even find each of these working in you but first we must identify our particular drama or in some cases multiple dramas.
Let’s look some example:
1. “The poor or lack me attitude drama"…they seek to make a person feel guilty for not doing enough for them. They gain energy when someone buys into this guilt trip. There whole conversation is how everything affects them. Their life is a mess, kids are a mess, house is a mess…they are not satisfied with anything. And if you play into this you feed it. It will produce an "intimidator" who wins energy by frightening others into paying attention.
2. The "aloof" personality drama. Always feeling left out and uninformed they gain energy by putting others on the offensive. They make you feel like you have lack something in your responsibilities for them. In this drama we find one that is detached, secretive, and vague. They use this - hoping to entice someone into chasing them around in order for them to have our time thus gaining energy.
3. The "interrogator mentality drama"
The interrogator is one that is forever asking questions…why, when, who and how. They make you feel like you have many things but the truth is that they only compare your answer with their preconceive ideas of things. They are actually people who are very studious and researcher but because of their loss identity, they aren’t always sure of their own findings and conclusions.
4. “The worship drama”
This is clearly seen in religious meetings… they wait for something outside of themselves to come, move and change their circumstances. The worship leader believes the louder you sing or shout the more likely God will hear and maybe He will come and do something. Rev. 3:20 says, "My Father and I will come and make our dwelling within you." We don’t need to shout, or be solemn to gain God’s attention. They are waiting someday for Him to come and do this or do that. But the Bible declares "We know HE IS COME." 1 John 5:20. This is a soulish realm and they must grow up.
5.”The Pastor’s drama”
In the church the pastor will always tell you that you need him for your life to teach you, the Holy Spirit isn’t enough. You need him to know where you are heading to heaven or in hell. He knows how you will or not be blessed by following some one, two, three, four guidelines and many do’s and don’ts. But member grow regardless, Pastor usually remains. The problem has been that the Pastor wants the member to continue to need him thus having control over them….after all he says the Bible says submit to authority. As you grow you learn submission is for the un-submitted . . . we learn to hear the voice for ourselves, the Spirit within.
4. “The Parent drama”
To gain control of the home environment, the make up must be to raise our voice and everyone jumps. You could walk into room and throw a tantrum and literally suck the energy out of everyone. Your family began calling you an "energy sucker" or "aura jacker" just teasing but I quickly saw the picture and stepped out of this drama. I know this was wrong!
A scientific research study by Joseph E. LeDoux, proved that on the learning process of every human being was stored in the brain from his childhood. Scientist has been able to determine the way in which the brain shapes how we form memories about this basic, but scientific, emotional development. This process is commonly called “emotional memory”.
Once we bring out our control drama into awareness and stay connected with our inner source (anointing) we are free to look at ourselves and our lives in a more truthful way. We can begin to see the power struggles in this life and not play into them. Most folks that play control dramas have never found the source of life within. The Anointing that dwells within brings life, security, peace and power to overcome. I continue to be amazed at some of the reactions that come forth when one begins to awaken. So many are waiting for another teaching or another minister that will help or set them free when ALL they will ever need is already within.
Isaiah put it this way when he saw this Day we are standing, "the burden shall be taken away from off thy shoulder, and the yoke from off thy neck, and the yoke shall be destroyed BECAUSE OF THE ANNOINTING." It’s the anointing that breaks every yoke or bondage! It’s the anointing that sets us free! It’s the anointing that will teach us all things! And this anointing is none other than the Christ that dwells within. Let’s take a closer look at this anointing in our journey to wholeness of Spirit.
I came to realized that we all are a ball of energy. Some have high energy, some low and if the energy we are is not flowing freely then there must be a blockage somewhere. Albert Einstein saw this in his equation E=mc2. We are all energy slowed down to become visible but if sped up times the speed light, times the speed of light we become pure light or energy again. The Bible calls it the temporal realm, which is things that are seen are not eternal but the things that are not seen are eternal. James 1: 17 say, "He is the Father of LIGHTS."
The key is to recognize IN US first and then quit playing into others dramas.
